If you love a flower, don't pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love, So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is not about appreciation.
Buddha in Bodhi Tree. “When we resist change, it’s called suffering. But when we can completely let go and not struggle against it, when we can embrace the groundlessness of our situation and relax into its dynamic quality, that’s called enlightenment”