I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.
I do not like Girls who always say."I'm fat, I'm ugly, I am not beautiful". It is like they are having a pity party and only people who disagree and insist the opposite are invited. Shut Up and Listen for once.