They say it takes about the same time to get over someone as you were in the relationship with them. Seeing that you rebounded from a four year relationship after 1 months just says you never loved me to begin with.
This is so very true. We must heal ourselves before we allow anyone else into our heart, soul, or mind. or it just wouldn't be fair. It's very beneficial to YOU* as a human to take some time to heal from whatever it is that has broken your heart!