They don't considerate brain-washing or abuse but when you tell an innocent,open child that they will burn in a scarey place forever, you really leave them no choice but to obey out of fear. And fear leads to the dark side.
And not only does a survive childbirth, but goes on to live to along with others, some of whom live to over a millennium!<<and the magic omnipotent guy in the sky who loves you but will condemn you to enternal suffering if you fuck up
Many people can find themselves becoming deconverted when they compare the teachings they find in one book to the contradicting teachings found in a library books. This meme illustrates how some religious people can be narrowminded.