Time heals nothing unless you move along with it. Being stuck in the past has this problem: you are in a place where no change is possible. The past is fixed, so what remains there, remains unchanged. The present is where change can happen.
So very true! People should not judge others if they only know one side of the story. no matter what the other person is to you. always know both sides before you judge and criticize The other person you know nothing about.